The Power of Sex

Sex is emotional thermometer of the quality of a relationship. It is also an important aspect of human relations that couples generally have a difficult time discussing. When it comes to attention freely and openly with each other’s needs and desires.[1]

Good communication is central to a healthy intimate relationship. Unfortunately, it is not always easy to establish or maintain a communication relationship in matters of sex.[2]

This goes especially to the couples to be good communication starts in friendship not in marriage, before marriage a good foundation of sexual communication has to be established which involves the likes and dislikes, ups and downs, strength and weaknesses of the partner. Because without earlier orientation of sexual talk it will always be difficult to initiate it in marriage.

Sexual desire is an interpersonal attitude with most far – reaching consequence for those who are joined by it, cannot be morally neutral. On contrary, it is the experience of sexual desire that we must vividly conscious of the distinctive between virtuous and vicious impulses and most vividly aware that, in the choice between them, our happiness is at stake.[3]

Whichever sexual decision we make it will either bring to us sadness or happiness depending on how smart you are in your decisions.

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[1] David and John, Marriage and the Family, p. 135.

[2] Bryan Strong, Christine Devault, and Barbara Werner Sayad. Human Sexuality (California: Mayfield Publishing Company, 1999), p. 242.

[3] Daniel Bonevac: Today’s Moral Issues (London: McGraw-Hill, 2006), p. 69.